Needs and Wants Pt.1
March 8th, 2007 by Danny
So I’ve been thinking a lot lately. About life, etc. I hate it but I guess it’s something we all do at some point. Today I found myself thinking about the differences between being a friend and being one’s boyfriend / girlfriend. I pretty much came to the conclusion that in order to be a boyfriend / girlfriend, you need to satisfy some need that a friend can’t, otherwise you’re just a friend with the occasional benefit, if that. It may all sound very “duh”, but sometimes seeing it laid out in front of you helps. I guess you need to work for that need. Be that friend who’s needed in that extra way that crosses you over. All honesty and commitment go out the window when someone in a relationship can’t find that reason they are needed as a partner. Better to nip it in the butt early, and think of solutions before you just end up resenting each other. It’s important to know where the other person lies on your list of priorities I think. Cus that way you always know where they stand, and that surely has to build some strong ass bond eventually.
Amazing what common sense and time can string together.
CURRENTLY LISTENING TO:
Lazy Eye
Silversun Pickups
Carnavas
